Thursday, August 16, 2007

horses

Last updated March 2012

I was one of those kids growing up who was always begging her parents for a horse. Unfortunately, I was a city kid (downtown Buffalo, NY), and it just wasn't practical to keep a horse in the backyard or at the expensive city stables. But, I did get riding lessons, and finally when I was 22 I was able to buy a horse of my very own, Rebel. I still have him, in fact, and I consider myself very lucky because over the years Rebel has been transported from his native New York to South Carolina, then to Wyoming, to South Dakota, and finally back to Wyoming. He is very old now (27 years) but he is still my favorite horse to ride.

He is a small mixed-breed, probabably mostly Quarter Horse, but some people have said he looks like he has some Morgan in him, and other people have asked me if he is a Mustang. He is only 14 hands tall, a beautiful golden bay color, and true to his name, he has a bit of stubborn streak in him.

Here's a picture of Rebel from 2006, with two of my daughters and two of their cousins... he's a great kids' horse.














I grew up riding English and showing in hunter classes, transitioning to dressage and eventing in my twenties. I haven't shown since I got married in 1999, but absolutely one of my most favorite things to do is trail-riding, which I can do a lot of since we moved to a house on the edge of town, with lots of open space. Now I'm transitioning again due to my husband and daughters' interest in Western sports like team roping, barrel racing, and Western pleasure. Here's a video of Blaze chasing cows (February, 2009)



A couple years ago I bought a yearling filly here in Wyoming, and I named her after a fictional horse, Jewel, in one of my favorite books, Mary O'Hara's "Green Grass of Wyoming" (a sequel to her famous "My Friend Flicka").

Jewel looks a lot like Rebel - same bay, same size - but she actually is a genuine Wyoming Mustang. She was completely wild when I got her and was a lot of fun gentling her and training her.

Here's picture of her, from 2007, with my stepdaughter, who helped train her.














My husband also loves horses. He started out as a bareback bronc rider in high school rodeo, but he's currently into team-roping and penning. He likes to train young horses and then sell them as finished ropers (he's sold three so far and we have another one ready to sell) but there's one horse, Ally, that he's getting really attached too - it's going to be hard to sell her, especially since she's really good with the kids, too.

Here are some of my posts about horses:

Horse shows, and a ride by moonlight (June, 2009)

The Character of horses and humans (February, 2009)

Are the toys (and horses) in heaven? (March, 2009)

Blaze barrel-racing (July, 2008)

This is a really sentimental flashback - me riding Rebel back in 1997, right before
my parents sold our farm in West Falls, NY and moved to South Carolina

Monday, July 16, 2007

The details and quirks of everyday life

Last updated May, 2009

One of the traits of a writer is that no matter where they go or what they do, they are almost obssessively writing things down. I've had one friend shake her head at me, in amusement, or frustration? - and say to me, "stop writing everything I say down!" (Sorry, K.A.)

Sometimes what somebody just said sparks an idea; sometimes it's completely unrelated but I just had a great idea for a new story, or a way to develop a character, or enhance a setting, or a funny event I might be able to work into a scene that needs a little bit of a humorous facelift.

But a lot of times I jot things down just because I want to remember them. "Life is in the details" - forgot who that famous quote is attributed to; but I love all the beautiful, funny, quirky, bizarre things that life throws at me, and I love digging out my old notes, or scanning my journals every few years or so and laughing at the memories.

Recently I discovered a new note posted on the office door of one of the many, many offices I walk by everyday in my work building, on the way to my own office. I love it when people put cartoons or pictures or other fun stuff up on their office doors. This one said:

Don't make me get my flying monkeys!

This has amused me for weeks, everytime I walk by it. I even borrowed it once as a status update on my Facebook page.

I love reading Beth Moore's blog because she gets the same kick out of little moments that I do. For instance, here's a couple recent gems from her:

I dig airports. Great people watching. I've been sipping on my Starbucks and taking it all in. I just love watching people walk through the terminals with their neck pillows still on. It brings me a ton of joy.


To this day, Travis Cottrell still brings up the fact that I made him help me stuff a piñata with Scripture verses written on little pieces of paper while we were driving from the church to the restaurant. I didn’t even realize it was weird until our next speaking engagement when he laughed until he cried and had to hold his side.


A few more examples...

Christmas, New Years, Weddings, Hanging Beds, Parrots, Drinking Games, and other assorted adventures (January, 2009)

Fist deep in cake (December, 2008)

Thing 1 and Thing 2 (February, 2008)

Are there toys (and horses) in heaven? (March, 2009)



Two birthdays, two haircuts, and a broken arm (May 2009)

Saturday, June 16, 2007

True love, and why that means conflict

Last updated April, 2009

I didn't find my soul mate until I was almost 29 years old, and it was a long wait… I often wondered if I’d ever find true love, or even if there was such a thing as true love. It certainly didn’t come in the package I expected! I knew B. for about a year before he asked me out, and I never considered him as a "possibility"- after all, he was divorced, and he had a little girl. We were also complete opposites. I'm an introvert, a writer and voracious book reader. He is outgoing, a gear-head, and not interested in reading anything except headlines. We had only two things in common: we were both followers of Jesus, and we both loved horses.

We’d only been dating four weeks by the time I knew without a doubt I was falling in love. I’d fallen in love with his daughter too (for more about my stepdaughter, see this blog about my daughters.)













These are the things I love about him: He makes me laugh all the time. He’s a wonderful father (I got to see that part of him ahead of time: one bonus with marrying a guy that already has a kid). He writes wonderful love notes and occasionally, even spontaneously, he will buy me chocolates and flowers. He’s a cowboy (not professionally, but he does own cows, and he does regularly chase them with his horse). He can twirl his Colt into his holster like a pro. He can fix anything. He cries at the sappy parts of movies. He’s a great story-teller (one of my favorites is the one about the b-b gun he had when he was a kid and what he did to the bulls on the neighbor’s ranch. Or maybe it's the one about he and his brother peeing on the ants). We agree on everything important: faith, how to raise kids, even things like how much money to give to church, and what kind of dream home we both want. He was also really honest and open about his previous marriage and why it failed. He didn’t try to shift all the blame to his ex-wife: he admitted his failings, too.

Okay, there’s a few things I don’t like about him, I admit. I’m sure he can say the same thing about me… like, I’m really, really grumpy in the morning. And when I’m not grumpy, I’m moody. And if I’m not moody, I have my nose stuck in a book or in my laptop. Sometimes he has to tackle me and hold me down on the floor to get me to talk to him!

We’d been dating six weeks when he asked me to marry him. I didn't hesitate to say yes (in fact, I think I said “yes” three times). A few people gave us hard time about getting engaged so soon - and then setting a wedding date so soon - we were married within 6 months (July 4th, 1999. It’s great always having fireworks on our anniversary).

I certainly wouldn't recommend such a fast process for most people – it takes time to get to know someone. It takes time to get to know yourself well enough to be able to fit in with someone else. I think it worked for us because we were both older, we both knew exactly what we wanted, but most importantly we both have a very strong faith. We believed that when we faced conflict in our marriage, that we could turn to the Lord to help us work through it.














And we have had conflict, oh boy! (Someday I may blog about the Saleen Mustang incident, or the snowmobile and ketchup incident). But who doesn’t have conflicts, I ask? That’s just the nature of putting two human beings together and making them share everything! I believe that conflicts in marriage can either force you apart, or drive you closer together. The question is, how do you work through it so you end up closer? I’ve shared a few of my (our) trials and errors here in my blog.

Love & Respect (April, 2008)

Encouragement from the strangest place (April, 2009)

Monday, May 28, 2007

An Insatiable Reader

Last updated February, 2013

"To read is to fly: it is to soar to a point of vantage which gives a view over wide terrains of history, human variety, ideas, shared experience and the fruits of many inquiries."


What I'm Currently Reading

Seven Words to Change Your Family, James McDonald
Made to Crave, Lisa TerKeurst
Jesus Lives, Sarah Young
Kisses from Katie (about a girl who moved to Uganda and adopted children there)

Recent Recommendations

A Sacred Sorrow, Michael Card (Reaching out to God in the lost language of lament)
Jesus Calling, Sarah Young (devotional) 
Crazy Love, Francis Chan (this is one of the most directly challenging books I've ever read)
Finding Calcutta: What Mother Teresa Taught Me about Meaningful Work and Service, Mary Poplin
Heaven is For Real,  Todd Burpo
A Million Miles in a Thousand Years: what I learned while editing my  life, Donald Miller

Wonder, RJ Palacio
The Archived, Victoria Schwab
Girl of Fire and Thorns by Rae Carson
Reinventing Rachel, Alison Strobel
Beauty, Robin McKinley
Pegasus, Robin McKinley
The Blue Sword, Robin McKinley
Lady in Waiting, Susan Meissner
When Sparrows Fall, Meg Moseley
Fairer than Morning, Rosslyn Elliot
The Help, Kathryn Stockett
Blink, Ted Dekker
Holes, Louis Sachar 

So Long Insecurity, Beth Moore
Still Life, Mary Jensen
Out of the Silent Planet, C.S. Lewis
Perelandra, C.S. Lewis
A Grief Observed, C.S. Lewis
Surprised by Joy, C.S. Lewis
The Weight of Glory and other essays, C.S. Lewis

I'm still pondering these two:
The Gospel According to Jesus, John MacArthur Jr
The Ragamuffin Gospel, Brennan Manning

These two books are almost on opposite extremes of Christian thought on saving faith and grace. The difference is a matter of perspective - an author who is a Bible scholar and a "squeaky clean sinner", and an author who's hit bottom not once but several times but loves God all the more because of it. Notice that both titles have "Gospel" in them; but only one has "Jesus" in the title. One really delves into what Jesus taught; the other only touches on a few verses and majors on a lot of personal experience and quotes from other writers. Both books have flaws (only the Bible is perfect, after all!) and both books have some worthy insights. I love the compassion shared by Manning that MacArthur doesn't have. Sometimes it feels like that lack of compassion translates to lack of humility; MacArthur starts to sound as if his own words are infallible because he's studied Jesus' words so much. But the flaw of Manning's book is that it is more centered on human experience rather than centered on the whole teachings of the Bible.


Books I've blogged about
My Heart in His Hands (Ann Judson of Burma), Sharon James 
Open Season*, C.J. Box
Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows, J.K. Rowling
Twilight, Stephenie Meyer
Love and Respect, Emerson Eggerichs 
Time Traveler's Wife*, Audrey Niffeneger 
Believing God, Beth Moore
Prince Caspian, C.S. Lewis 
A Mother's Heart, Jean Fleming 
Plan B: Further Thoughts on Grace*, Anne Lamott
The Sparrow*, Mary Doria Russell
Having a Mary Heart in a Martha World, Joanna Weaver
Einstein's Dreams, Alan Lightman
A Million Miles in a Thousand Years, Donald Miller


* means the book has one or more of the following: swear words, violence or sexual content


My all time favorite books and authors
(I have read all of these more than once, some of them many, many times)
1. My Friend Flicka, Mary O'Hara
2. Thunderhead, Mary O'Hara
3. Green Grass of Wyoming, Mary O'Hara
4. Lord of the Rings, J.R.R. Tolkien
5. The Horse and His Boy, C.S. Lewis
6. Meet the Austins, Madeleine L'Engle
7. To Kill a Mockingbird, Harper Lee
8. Bambi, Felix Salten
9. The Earthsea series, Ursula K. LeGuin
10. The Black Stallion series, Walter Farley
 


My favorite Christian novels 
1. Voice in the Wind, Francine Rivers (love stories set in ancient cultures, Roman times is my favorite)
2. At Home in Mitford, Jan Karon (the whole series)
3. Stepping Heavenward, Elizabeth Prentiss (an old book, but timeless. Amazing insight into human character).
4. While Mortals Sleep, Jack Cavanaugh (about overcoming fear and trusting God during the Nazi regime; starts out slow, but it's well worth it for the noble and happy ending).
5. The Arena, Karen Hancock (a science fiction allegory of the Christian walk, much more exciting than Pilgrim's Progress but with many of the same allegories)
6. This Present Darkness, Frank Peretti (made me realize that even ordinary life, as it may seem to us, is a great epic of spiritual warfare. The danger with this book is falling so much in love with the noble angels that we lose sight of the majesty of God)
7. The Scarlet Thread, Francine Rivers (intertwining stories of a pioneer woman and her great great granddaughter, struggling with similar issues in life and love)


Best books about Following Jesus
1. Mere Christianity, C.S. Lewis
2. Passion and Purity, Elisabeth Elliot
3. Blue like Jazz, Donald Miller
4. The Hiding Place, Corrie Ten Boom
5. Crazy Love, Francis Chan
6. Spiritual Disciplines for the Christian Life, Donald Whitney
7. Experiencing God, Henry Blackaby
8. The Green Letters (Principles of Spiritual Growth), Miles Stanford
9. Living Beyond Yourself, Beth Moore
10. My Utmost For His Highest, Oswald Chambers

11. Finding Calcutta, Mary Poplin
12. Evidence Not Seen, Darlene Deibler Rose


Best books on parenting
1. A Mother's Heart, Jean Fleming
2. Shepherding A Child's Heart, Tedd Tripp
3. To Train Up A Child, Michael and Debi Pearl
4. Five Love Languages of Children, Gary Chapman

Best books on marriage
1. Love and Respect, Emerson Eggerichs
2. Sacred Marriage, Gary Thomas
3. Created to Be His Helpmeet, Debi Pearl
4. Lies Women Believe, Nancy Leigh DeMoss


 My favorite classics
1. Sense and Sensibility, Jane Austen
2. Jane Eyre, Chalotte Bronte
3. Pride and Prejudice, Jane Austen
4. Anna Karenina, Leo Tolstoy
5. Black Beauty, Anna Sewell
6. Little Women, Louisa May Alcott
7. Rebecca, Daphne Du Maurier
8. Gone With The Wind, Margaret Mitchell
9. Anne of Green Gables, L.M. Montgomery
10. Charlotte’s Web, E.B. White
11. The Trumpet of the Swan, E.B. White
12. Dracula, Bram Stoker
13. White Fang, Jack London
 


Favorite non-fiction (non-Christian)
1. Bird by Bird*, Anne Lamott (on writing)
2. Operating Instructions*, Anne Lamott
3. Pilgrim at Tinker Creek, Annie Dillard
4. Desert Solitaire*, Edward Abbey
5. Rising From the Plains, John McPhee (I call it "a geologic romance of Wyoming")

6. The Marshall Plan for Novel Writing, Evan Marshall

Novels that are just plain fun to read
 

Anything by Robin McKinley (The Blue Sword, Beauty, Pegasus, etc)
Twilight, Stephenie Meyer
Riding Lessons*, Sarah Gruen
Flying Changes*, Sarah Gruen
 

Open Season*, C.J. Box
The Island, Victoria Hilsop
Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone, J.K. Rowling
The Hitch Hiker’s Guide to the Galaxy, Douglas Adams
Snow Crash*, Neal Stephenson
The Hunt for Red October, Tom Clancy
Fool on the Hill*, Matt Ruff
The Matarese Circle*, Robert Ludlum

Girl At Sea, Maureen Johnson
Anything by Dick Francis

Novels that make you think
 

Time Traveler's Wife*, Audrey Niffeneger
A Painted House, John Grisham
A Thousand Splendid Suns*, Khaled Hosseini
Till We Have Faces, C.S. Lewis
Dune*, Frank Herbert
The Stand*, Stephen King
Ender's Game, Orson Scott Card
Zen and the Art of Motorcylce Maintenance, Robert Pirsig
I, Claudius*, Robert Graves
The Winds of War / War and Remembrance*, Herman Wouk
Talk Before Sleep*, Elizabeth Berg
Diary of Anne Frank
The Hearts of Horses, Molly Gloss
The Thornbirds*, Colleen McCollough
The Clan of the Cave Bear*, Jean Auel

Interview with a Vampire*, Anne Rice
Watership Down, Richard Adams
A Wrinkle in Time, Madeleine L'Engle

Julie of the Wolves, Jean Craighead George


Other notable books I've read, (but they depressed me!)
The Sun Also Rises - Ernest Hemingway
Catcher in the Rye - J.D. Salinger
Catch-22 - Joesph Heller
Nineteen Eighty Four - George Orwell
His Dark Materials (series) - Philip Pullman
The Great Gatsby - F Scott Fitzgerald
Memoirs of a Geisha - Arthur Golden
The Da Vinci Code - Dan Brown
The Handmaid’s Tale - Margaret Atwood
Of Mice and Men - John Steinbeck
Brave New World - Aldous Huxley
Lord of the Flies - William Golding
Song of Solomon - Toni Morrison
The Color Purple - Alice Walker
The Stranger - Albert Camus
Stranger in a Strange Land - Robert Heinlein
Cat's Cradle - Kurt Vonnegut
The Chosen - Chaim Potok
Thread of Grace - Mary Doria Russell
Jacob I Have Loved - Katherine Paterson

Other books I plan to read: 

Uncle Tom's Cabin, Harriet Beecher Stowe
A Severe Mercy, Sheldon Vanauken
Feathers from My Nest, Beth Moore
Things Pondered, Beth Moore
The Yada Yada Prayer Group, Neta Jackson
Rebekah, Orson Scott Card
Christ the Lord - Out of Egypt, Anne Rice
Crime and Punishment, Fyodor Dostoyevsky

The Republic, Plato
Divine Comedy, Dante
Middlemarch, George Eliot
A Tale Of Two Cities, Charles Dickens

Nicholas and Alexandra, Robert K. Massie
The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-time, Mark Haddon
A Fine Balance, Rohinton Mistry
My Antonia, Willa Cather
The Maltese Falcon, Dashiell Hammett
Romey's Place, James Calvin Schaap

Reason in the Balance, Philip Johnson
Finding Darwin's God, Kenneth Miller
That Hideous Strength, C.S. Lewis
The Great Divorce, C.S. Lewis

Thursday, May 10, 2007

Why I am a geographer


I don’t think anybody plans on being a geographer. When you’re a kid, you don’t go around saying “I want to be a geographer when I grow up, I can name the capitol cities of every country in the world.” Please, if you run into someone like that, don't let them call themselves a geographer; that's toponymy, not geography.

So, I wanted to be a biologist when I grew up. Specifically, a marine biologist. I had visions of swimming with dolphins and discovering how to communicate with them. In reality, my first job as a biologist was collecting mouse urine and analyzing it. My second one wasn’t much better: collecting gypsy moth caterpillars and dissecting their infected, decaying remains. I just couldn’t see doing stuff like this for the rest of my life.


Fortunately, during one of my biology classes, a professor had the good sense to mention a computer system called a “GIS” that was the latest technology for natural resource management and forestry and a host of other planning applications. I’d already decided at this point that I preferred working with computers than with microscopes, so I signed up for a GIS class to fill one of my last electives my senior year in college. I loved it. “GIS” stands for Geographic Information Systems, and in it’s most basic form it is making and manipulating computerized maps, but it is so much more than that, too – spatial modeling and analysis of everything from hydrological networks to wildlife habitat to finding the best locations for new Starbucks franchises.

So I asked my advisor, what do I need to do to get qualified for a job as a GIS analyst? Turns out (at least back then) it meant I would have to go back to school for a Master’s in Geography.
Geography? I groaned. Good grief. All I knew about geography was the agony of memorizing state capitols in fifth grade. But, I did like maps. (So did J.R.R. Tolkien, author of the Lord of the Rings. One of my favorite quotes is from him: “I wisely started with a map”.)


I’d just come back from a cross-country road trip with a college friend – we hit just about every National Park west of the Mississippi – and I’d had my nose stuck inside our road atlas for most of that 12,000 mile journey. I was experienced folding quite a few National Park trail maps, too. A nice bonus was when I discovered that one of the top Geography departments in the country was right in my backyard – at the State University of New York at Buffalo. So I signed up for a couple geography classes (without even applying for grad school, at that point).

I quickly discovered that I loved the interdisciplinary nature of geography. Why limit yourself to marine biology, when you can dabble in areas as diverse as wildlife management, sociology, climatology, and archaeology – all areas that I’ve used GIS as a framework for analysis.


To shamelessly quote from Wikipedia, geography is the study of the Earth and its lands, features, inhabitants, and phenomena. A literal translation would be "to describe or write about the Earth". Modern geography is an all-encompassing discipline that foremost seeks to understand the Earth and all of its human and natural complexities-- not merely where objects are, but how they have changed and come to be. Geography has been called "the bridge between the human and physical sciences”. Geographers study the spatial temporal distribution of phenomena, processes and feature as well as the interaction of humans and their environment. As space and place affect a variety of topics such as economics, health, climate, plants and animals, geography is highly interdisciplinary.

A quote from William Hughes (1863): "...mere names of places...are not geography...knowing by heart a whole gazetteer full of them would not, in itself, constitute anyone a geographer. Geography has higher aims than this: it seeks to classify phenomena... of the natural and of the political world...to compare, to generalize, to ascend from effects to causes, and, in doing so, to trace out the great laws of nature and to mark their influences upon man. This is 'a description of the world'—that is Geography. In a word Geography is a Science—a thing not of mere names but of argument and reason, of cause and effect."


After almost 20 years now in this field, I can shamelessly admit to being a geography geek of the highest order. Framed historical maps adorn the walls of my house. I frequently consult my world atlas when I hear about new places on the news, or on nature shows - because I like to see where places are, and how they relate to other places. I've used my GIS software to map and analyze good trails for riding our horses in the National Forest behind our house. (By the way, GIS is NOT the same thing as GPS. GPS just collects raw data on locations. GIS is used to analyze GPS data).

Thursday, March 29, 2007

Comparing worldviews: challenge me

I have always been fascinated by different worldviews, and my own changing perception of how I see the world I live in. A worldview is basically all the presuppositions that influence your outlook on life (http://www.allaboutworldview.org/). A worldview has been compared to a lens which alters the way you view life and how you perceive the world you live in.

There are many factors that can influence worldviews: culture, race, religion/philosophy, history, geography, language, war and other conflicts, to name just a few. I'm most fascinated by religion, philosophy and geography (I am a geographer by profession).

Philosophy and religion address the question "what is truth?"

I do not believe truth is relative, and there are plenty of compelling arguments at www.allaboutphilosophy.org/absolute-truth.htm to support this; but at the same time, one of my favorite quotes is:

Do we believe we hold the truth? No, the Truth holds us… (http://www.thinkingchristian.net/)

So, while I believe Truth is absolute, and is found in its most complete, uncorrupted form in the teachings of Biblical Christianity, I also believe each individual's understanding of the truth is limited to their experience and perception, which should be constantly growing and changing as we learn more and exchange more ideas.

The following blog posts are comparisons of my worldview to other worldviews as expressed in books, movies, or other mediums. I welcome any insight or challenges in regard to my conclusions. Also, if you take the time to read about my worldview, I'll certainly return the favor if you leave a link.

Worldviews part 1: the truth is we need help

Worldviews part 2: What about suffering?

Why Tolerance Isn't Enough

Some thoughts on Avatar and why it is so appealing

Friday, March 16, 2007

Wyoming

A native of Buffalo, NY, I have lived in Wyoming for 15 years now. When people find out I'm originally from New York, they always ask me what brought me out here. The short answer is, "a job" (see story below). But it was also the beauty and rugged wildness of the Rocky Mountains that drew me, and the wide open spaces. This is a picture of the Laramie River Valley, about 30 minutes from where I live.













I wanted to live in Wyoming ever since I was about 10 years old, and read Mary O'Hara's classic book, "My Friend Flicka", which is set on a ranch in Wyoming. Actually, it's a ranch just 20 minutes away from where I live now in Laramie, and they even have a website: check out the Remount Ranch. I fell in love with the adventures of ranch life, raising and riding horses, mountains lions in your backyard...

Here is a picture of me backpacking through the Wind River Mountains in Wyoming.















There are many beautiful places in the world, and there are other places I have fantasized about moving to, but after 15 years Wyoming continues to fascinate me. Here's an article I wrote for my family newsletter, back in 2002, and it captures some of the unique aspects of living in Wyoming.

What’s Different in Wyoming

I had just graduated from the University of Buffalo and was checking out the job listings on the internet (still a very new thing in 1994, and not many jobs listed yet!) when I came across a year-long research assistantship at the University of Wyoming. It didn’t pay very much (Wyoming’s pay scale is nothing to boast about) but I was intrigued by the notion of living in Wyoming for a year – a state where the antelope outnumber the people.

Wyoming has the smallest population of all the 50 states – about 500,000 (that’s less than the population of the city I grew up in). There’s about 100 towns scattered around Wyoming, and some of them have a population of only 5-10 people. You can drive for hours and never see a sign of humanity other than the road you’re on. I pictured myself dating cowboys and riding the range. Sounded like fun, for a year! Little did I know that I would end up living there much longer – and that I would end up marrying one of those cowboys I thought it would be fun to date!

Laramie is the 3rd largest city in Wyoming, at 26,000 people, and boasts an elevation of 7,200 ft. I moved there in late March, and when I left Buffalo things were already greening up for spring, but in Laramie there was still snow. My first big disappointment was that spring didn’t come until late May, and only after several snow storms. In the Rocky Mountains I soon discovered the weather can be sunny and 70 degrees one day, and snowing with a 0 degree windchill the next day.

You never know what to expect for weather here, and you never go anywhere – even in the summer – without a sweater just in case. You can expect snowfall anytime of the year (though I haven’t seen any in August yet). But, on the plus side, you can get a lot of warm days in the winter and sunny days over 300 days a year.

We also get lots of rainbows in Wyoming. Many times it’ll be raining on one side of the street but not on the other. We have very few trees, except in the mountains (another big adjustment for me). You have to actually visit here or Montana to truly appreciate the term “big sky country.” The sky is BIG. The ground in Wyoming is plain and boring – dry plains with scattered sagebrush – but the sky makes up for it with all its fantastic moods.


The sky isn't the only spectacular thing, of course. Here's a picture of Aspen Alley in the Sierra Madre Mountains.



















The mountains are pretty amazing, too. This is SquareTop Mountain, overlooking the Green River.


The high elevation and dry climate also means frequent nosebleeds and more huffing and puffing when you climb stairs (thinner air). It also means we have no fleas, chiggers, termites or other annoying pests – except for one – the mosquito, which we have in great abundance during the month of June.

For me the hardest adjustment was the thin air – it took me about three weeks to be able to climb the stairs to my office without feeling like I was going to pass out, and about a year before I could run even just a half a mile.

The climate out here may be a bit of a shock, but the culture is not that different at all. People are very friendly, laid-back, and wear blue jeans to work and church. You can tell a true cowboy from a “wanna-be” not because they have bowed legs but because they NEVER wear shorts or short-sleeved shirts, no matter how hot it gets.

Wyomingites like to play a few tricks on “outsiders” such introducing them to Rocky Mountain oysters and telling stories about hunting jack-a-lope (a mythical hare with antelope horns). Everyone knows how to drive a stick shift (I eventually learned, as well) and all true Wyoming men own a pick-up truck. Everyone keeps tire chains and a shovel in the back of their car or pickup, just in case. They like to tell swap tales about the moose or elk they saw in their backyard and the mountain lion they saw while hunting last year (these stories are usually true, unlike the jack-a-lope). I have not yet seen a mountain lion myself, but I have seen fresh tracks! The mountains here are beautiful and there are many interesting places to visit near us...


Here's a list of some of my favorite places in Wyoming:


  • Vedauwoo and Happy Jack recreation areas- right outside of Laramie, our favorite place to go horseback riding, camping and rock-scrambling. Huge, house-sized boulders all jumbled together into fantastic shapes, like castles and giant turtles.
  • Popo Agie falls (pronounced Poe-poe-ja). This is just outside of Lander, Wyoming, in the Wind River mountains. Most of the year there isn't enough water to make this waterfall very remarkable: but for a short time during spring snowmelt, the entire hillside is covered with cascading water.
  • Pinedale, Wyoming - Fremont Lake overlook. This short drive up into the mountains gives you a spectacular view of Fremont Lake, as well as a beautiful panaroma of the high peaks of the Wind River mountains, including Gannett Peak, our tallest mountain (13,700 ft)
  • Green River lakes and Square Top Mountain. A long drive on a rough road to get there, but well worth it. Square Top Mountain is as memorable a sight as Devil's Tower.
  • Jenny Lake Trail and Hidden Falls, Grand Teton National Park. I saw my first bear on this trail - way too close for comfort.
  • Tower Falls, Yellowstone. Just about any place in Yellowstone is amazing -it's hard to pick a favorite place.
  • Aspen Alley, Sierra Madre mountains - peak aspen color is around the last week of September/first week of October
  • Route 14 over the Bighorn Mountains. Wildflower heaven in June. I saw my first moose along this road, too.
  • Crazy Woman Canyon - near Buffalo, Wyoming
  • Chimney Rock Road - another pretty drive just outside of Laramie